It is not just women that run into trouble when trying to find a life partner, some men also face this challenge as every man wants to make sure they settle down with not just any woman, but the right one.
Here are 5 reasons you are having problems finding yourself a wife:
1. Your Lifestyle: Spending your nights at bars, hanging out at clubs way too often, or spending your days in drunken stupor are attributes that will not help you if you are looking to find and keep a good women.
While, as a man, you have your share of women, the ones that are worth marrying will stay far away from you if your lifestyle is so reckless.
What you can do: It does not matter if this is your lifestyle right now, but if you are seriously looking for a woman to share your life with, then you need to make a change.
Responsibility is an important trait every real man should have and no irresponsible man will make a good husband. Make the right changes so you can meet the woman you truly deserve
2. Your Instability: You do not have to be completely-set in life before you can get married but you definitely need to prove that you have some stability to some extent.
A woman is looking to build a home with her man, but the man has to have something to build on. Still living with your parents, or sharing a room with a bunch of friends, or not having a stable source of income will discourage women from wanting to share your life with you.
What you can do: It is important that you have something of yours to build on. You do not have to have a mansion or make millions. Even if all you have is one room and a start-up job paying peanuts, a good woman will see you and your potential.
3. Your Reputation: Another thing that hurt men’s chances at marriage is their reputation with girls. If you are known for dating countless girls, sleeping with every woman that comes your way, or even making babies with a dozen different women, then you will have problems finding a woman to stand by you.
A woman does not want to be with a man who will be unfaithful or who will be coming with baby mama drama.
What you can do: Prove you are the type of man worth marrying. Make good choices with the kinds of women you surround yourself with. It might seem like having a reckless sex life is no big deal for now, but someday it will catch up with you and hurt your chances of being with a worthy woman.
4. Your Leadership Ability: Simply put, a man should have an innate ability to lead. A woman wants to be married to someone who can lead his family and make the right decisions for the home. He should not be a pushover or someone that others easily take advantage of. He should be able to stand up for himself, his values and his family.
What you can do: Do you have problems standing up for yourself? Are you indecisive? Do you have low self-esteem? Then you need to make changes and make them fast. You need to find what is underneath your self doubt and work on being able to lead.
5. Your Shallowness: You are so focused on a woman’s physical attributes that you forget that good women often come in packages you might not expect.
You should be with someone you have an attraction to but if you are judging all women based on what they look like, then you will end up single forever or stuck in an unhappy marriage.
If you base your decision on looks, you would find it difficult to find yourself a wife since nobody is completely perfect. You would look the other way if you see a tiny bit of imperfection and end up missing your chances at love.
What you can do: Remember, looks are not everything. You should be realistic when trying to find a mate. You should not be so rigid that you end up overlooking a potential wife because she does not have the right look, or is not the right height or weight. Get to know women before making decisions on whether or not you want to be with them.
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