Ex Shooting Stars Player Rafiu Salami Dies In Ibadan

The Nigerian football family has once again lost a great icon in the game. Ex-IICC Shooting Stars player, Rafiu Salami, passed-on at the wee hours of yesterday October 14, Vanguard reports.
Salami who also coached the Ibadan based club had been reportedly sick for some time now and consequently gave up the ghost at his residence in Oluyole, Ibadan.

Late Rafiu Salami

The 73-year old helped his club win Nigeria’s first continental championship.


Perturbed by the passage, one of his children said: “He has been sick for the past two months but the physician advised us to move him back home when his case seemed hopeless. He gave up the ghost moment after getting home this morning.”
However, ex Super Eagles coach and FIFA/CAF Technical Instructor, Adegboye Onigbinde, described the late legend as a complete gentleman who is always committed to any delegated responsibilities.




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A randy pastor, Oliver Akpan, has met his match recently in Cross River State.

A randy pastor, Oliver Akpan, has met his match recently in Cross River State.

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Pastor Oliver was said to have attempted molesting a married woman after a 3-day fasting and prayer in the disguise of rounding up a spiritual deliverance.

According to Pulse.ng, pastor Oliver whose church is located in Akpabuyo local government area of the state, is married with six children. He was reported to have been approached by a young woman simply identified as Ekamma, over a spiritual matter. The pastor recommended the 3-day dry fasting for her to be carried out in the church and on the final day, there would be a spiritual bath so as to seal up the ‘spiritual victory’.

The pastor who is said to be known for sexually molesting both married and single ladies in his church took the food-deprived woman to a stream for the spiritual bath. The pastor was said to have informed the woman that part of the bath included having sex with her but when she refused. He however attempted to forcefully have carnal knowledge of the woman.

In self-defense, the woman allegedly got hold of a sharp stick, stabbing him in the stomach before she ran to the village to alert other residents. By the time they got to the spot, the wounded pastor had lost consciousness as he bled profusely. He was rushed to a hospital where doctors confirmed he died before he was brought in. The woman was initially arrested by the police but was released on bail while investigations are still on going.

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7 $£x Positions That Could Turn Around Your Marriage

 Sex is a necessary part of marriage. It is important for couples to spice up their sex life and try out new sex positions from time to time.

Know more, feel more confident, relax and enjoy the moment

It is not weird for couples to explore; if they don’t learn to experiment with each other it may cause serious problems if a party decides to try out things with someone other than his/her supposed partner.
Some sex positions are simple and easy to practice while some could be advanced and require full cooperation and participation of the practicing couples. For couples who intend to spice up their marriage, the following sex positions would do.

Woman trapped between a wall and a man
Things could get a little hot when a woman’s back is put to a hard surface or wall while the man stands in front of her. Sex in this position is usually quick and sensual. The woman’s feet remains on the ground while the man thrusts into her. It’s a very comfortable position unlike the man lifting the woman off the ground and supporting her weight with his hands. It is an erotic position that helps the man grind into the woman’s clitoris; therefore giving her multiple sensations.

Lying over the bed with legs on the floor
The woman lies on the bed with her chest on the bed. Her legs remain on the floor while the man stands behind her. This sex position aims at raising the woman’s butt while the man takes her from behind. The man dominates this position as he is able to control the depth of penetration. The woman gets the heat in this angle and is able to reach orgasm in little or no time.

Man lying on his back, woman on top
This position allows the woman to get out of her shell and assume control during sex. Contrary to the missionary style where the woman remains inactive under the man, this sex position allows the woman to sit on the man’s willy while bouncing. The man enjoys seeing the woman’s breasts, could fondle them and remain excited all through.

Position 69
In this sex position, the man lies back while the woman lay on him upside down such that her rear is in the man’s face while her head and hands get to work on his lower part of the body too. This position is to maximize and prolong foreplay. It’s an oral sex position. It prepares both man and woman for the main course. They get to reach orgasm with this position. The only problem is that one of them could get absorbed in the moment and forget to return the favour.

Sitting position
The man sits on a support like a chair while the woman sits on his laps facing him. This position is good for slow and deliberate sensual stimulation. The couple can run their hands on each other’s bodies while at it. The woman could move her hips in rotatory movements during sex. The feel of the woman’s butt on his laps is another wild sensation for the man. It’s a relatively simple position.

Woman’s legs suspended over man’s shoulders
With the woman lying on her back and her legs raised and supported by the man’s shoulders, the man gains full control. This position is dominated by the man as he is able to thrust deeply into the woman. The feel of the pelvic walls could make the man climax and shudder with excitement. It is a heated position for women as well.

Counter Quickies
Sex becomes more fun for couples when they are able to sneak around the house and do it anywhere the urge strikes them. Counter quickie is an emergency position in which the woman sits on a counter with legs spread wide while the man thrusts in standing. Shorter women find this position comfortable as it puts them on the same level with their husbands willy. Couples with kids find it convenient and could have a quick one even in the kitchen.

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5 Easy Ways To Get Pregnant Fast

Quite a lot of couples have been faced with the problem of getting pregnant after few months of coming together as married couples.

Anxiety and so many other relatives creep in, worsening the situation. However, most couples forget basic ‘not-so-significant’ steps that make getting babies less stressful. However, here are 5 simple ways and methods to follow in order to get babies.

1. Have Sex As Often As You Can

There is a high probability for a woman that has sex every day to get pregnant compared to another who does not. According to findings, regular sexual activities can help in increasing the chances of a woman in getting pregnant as it triggers the immune system changes that boost the likelihood of getting pregnant. According to Tierney Lorenz, the lead researchers from the university’s Kinsey Institute:

“It’s a common recommendation that partners trying to have a baby should engage in regular intercourse to increase the woman’s changes of getting pregnant even during so-called ‘nonfertile’ periods although it’s unclear how this works. This research is the first to show that the sexual activity may cause the body to promote types of immunity that support conception.”

2. Build On Your Ovulation

This is about the next important thing to do when looking to get pregnant. You must figure out when you ovulate  and know how your cycle works. It is only when a sperm meets an egg that your dream of becoming pregnant can come through. However, this egg only comes usually once a month, around day 14 in your cycle, hence, the need to know your ovulation period. You should however know that your most fertile period comes during your ovulation, therefore, build on it!

3. Know The Right Positions

You might not take it seriously but experts have overtime opined that different sex positions play a key role in getting pregnant. There has been assertions that the ‘missionary position’ (man-on-top position) is the most adequate for getting pregnant. This is assumed because the missionary position is a great gateway for deep penetration, helping the man’s sperm to be ejaculated as close to the cervix (the opening of the womb) as possible.

4. Your Weight Matters

While being overtly thin can slow down your fertility, being overweight too can affect your fertility, hence the need to maintain an ideal weight. As an overweight person, it means there is excess fat in the body, this fat in turn produces excess estrogen, which can interfere in ovulation.

5. Take Folic Acid

When trying to get pregnant, folic acid is a very important supplement for the woman. Experts opine that women who take folic acid before trying for a baby (ideally for at least three months before conceiving and for the first 12 weeks of pregnancy) have fewer chances of having a baby with conditions such as spina bifida.

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6 Things Every Man Wants To Do before Getting Married

Unlike the women, most men take their time before they settle down. They enjoy living as bachelors with little or no restrictions.

 
They have total control of their lives as being single gives them the satisfaction of eating their cake and having it. Marriage changes everything; this knowledge makes men want to do certain things while preparing towards the time they say “I do”.

Here are some things most men would want to do before getting married.

Planning Ahead
Men find it easier to analyse and reflect on issues that may have long term effect on their lives when they are single. Not like being married robs one of every thinking nerves, it’s just better and safer to take major risk that may involve businesses and huge sum of money when single. Worrying over the safety of immediate family members may hold a man back from making decisions that may change his life around for good.

Financial Independence
As much as a man desires to bid bachelorhood goodbye, little or no money could be an inhibiting factor. Women by default are demanding, to keep the union functioning the man must make immense preparation towards marriage. Every man wants to have a sustainable business or job that would support the family he intends to raise. Without having a backup plan to fall on, a man may suspend plans of getting married till he attains stability in his finances.

Crave For Solitude
Every man desires his own space; a place where he could think and be completely at peace.  Living alone often help the men manage their affairs and learn how to do basic chores. They also learn to see their partners as helpers after marriage. It helps them understand the true meaning of companionship as they can make comparison between living alone and being married.

Multiple Dating
Almost every man wants to explore and if possible date every girl within their reach before they get married. They love the feeling of having to choose amidst a wide range of girls. As a matter of fact, if men don’t explore enough before marriage, they may feel like they missed out on a major part of their lives. At the long run when they decide to get married, the satisfaction of having dated different types of women helps them stay focused enough to get through the initial stage of their marriage.

Reckless Adventure
While it may be okay to hang out and visit strip clubs as a single guy, it may be difficult to maintain the same level of social activity as a married man. Not like some wives mind though, but being married comes with overwhelming responsibilities that requires men to slow down with their recklessness. Many men would party hard and try to reach a social climax before they settle down.

Learning To Deal With Pain
Before a man settles down with his dream girl or situation-inflicted partner, it is important for him to learn how to deal with pain. Knowledge of pain brings with it an understanding; the ability to relate with someone suffering and comfort such person. This grooms men and make them better individuals.

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7 Things That Can Crush Your Marriage

The rate at which marriages crumble these days has become a major point of concern.
Unlike in the past, when couples struggle to make their marriages work, the present day generation seem to want to run out the slightest chance they get.

Young black ethnic African-American couple at odds and bad mood not talking with each other and looking away after heated argument

That brings up the questions, “Are people getting married to ward off societal pressure? Or do they lack the knowledge to interpret the deep words of their vows?”

As crazy as the world is, there are still some people who are willing to invest and make their marriages work. Below are things that could crumble one’s marriage.

Insatiable Greed For Wealth
Money they say, answereth all things. However, the quest for wealth could make couples lose focus and throw them off course. The love of money and the zeal to acquire it at all cost could rub off on a party. It has been discovered that with the acquisition of wealth, couples tend to be pulled apart as money is seen as a vice that could make other things happen. Also, if material gain was considered before venturing into the marriage, a decline in wealth or financial instability may cause the marriage to crumble.

Hurtful Words
Some words bring comfort to the soul while some reduces one’s self esteem. Words spoken with anger and resentment put out the flame of love. Failure to appreciate one’s partner weakens the bond. Verbal abuse often leads to physical abuse. The frustration that comes along with being talked down coupled with other problems may cause the marriage to fail.

Negativity
Most people get married now with the preconceived thought that once it fails they are setting out. They seem to have heard or seen so many faults from other people’s marriages that they get into theirs with a made up mind to file for divorce once things get ugly. They aren’t ready to endure or try out other possibilities. This attitude or mindset doesn’t work; the fighting spirit has been killed before the start of the battle. Marriage should be approached with positivity.

Lack Of Communication
Most couples get caught up in their daily affairs and work details that they miss out on important things that involve their partners.  The inability to talk things through is one of the leading causes of divorce. It is important for couples to express themselves, some issues aren’t worth fighting over but lack of communication tends to blow them out of proportion.

Lack Of Commitment
Many marriages fail and crumble because the people involved don’t keep the affair burning with the same fire of passion they started with. Most people neglect their partners and feel there’s no need to impress them anymore. They start to see them as fixed assets and focus their attention on achieving other goals.

Sex And Its Abuse
Sex is very important in marriage. Apart from the purpose of procreation, it is a pleasurable act that binds the couples. It is an important tool in mending bonds after a long term or short term disconnection. However, when one of the two people involved loses interest and start to give excuses, the deprived partner may be forced to find it elsewhere. Cheating makes things worse and the union dissolved at the long run.

Apportioning Blame
For relationships to go smoothly, it is important to let go of ego for peace to reign. The people involved should know their places and be ready to take responsibility for their actions instead of passing blames. Many marriages have failed because people don’t know how to let go, apologize and move on.


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Guard Arrested With Four AK 47 Rifles, Blames DPO

Policemen attached to the Special Anti-Robbery Squad (SARS), Lagos state police command are investigating a 58-year old man, Jude Ojoo, over allegations of impersonation and gun running.
According to police source, the suspect was arrested by the deputy commissioner of police in charge of B operations, DCP John Dokumor, for driving against traffic.

AK47 rifles

Following the arrest, the suspect was handed over to the SARS operatives for further investigation.
It was gathered that the police conducted a search of the suspect’s vehicle and found guns in the booth of the car, a police uniform with the rank of a deputy superintendent of police and a forged police identity card.
The suspect however claimed that he is a guard at an unnamed church and that the guns belonged to his church.
He said: “I am a security man at a church. I was using the guns for protection of our church. I was coming back from the armoury where I had gone to repair the guns. We were four persons in the vehicle including the GO (General Overseer) of our church. I was driving against traffic at the Abattoir area when I was arrested and the guns were found on me.”
Asked how he came about the guns and the police uniforms including the fake identity card, the suspect said: “I got the guns to protect the church. I am the head of security in our church and the guns are licensed. I bought the police uniforms but a friend of mine who is a CSP (Chief Superintendent of Police) gave me the identity card. He is a DPO.”

A police source revealed that they recovered four AK 47 rifles and two locally made guns from the suspect.
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