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» The 3 Sexiest Words A Man Can Say To A Woman… Must Read For All!

If you’re expecting “I Love You”, we’ve got some news for you!

By Bryan Reeves.
“I love you.” (nope)
“You look beautiful.” (nope)
“Let’s go shopping!” (depends how you say it, but still, no)
“How’s your mother?” (no, this will just make her suspicious of you)
Those are all nice to say, and many women want to hear them from their partner; they like to feel cherished. But none of those by themselves will necessarily have her soften all warm-putty-like into your hairy masculine arms.




The three s3xiest words I’m referring to speak to primal forces within both men and women. An archetypal trip wire, these eight letters strung together can trigger a man’s spine to straighten and make a woman swoon.
I wish I could say I figured this one out by myself, but a lady friend had to point this out. Once she did, I looked back to my own intimate relationships and saw overwhelming evidence for her case everywhere. We were having coffee when she started telling me about her new boyfriend. He was refined and kind, loving and intelligent. He was a creative artist, and an accomplished one at that. She felt him a good man and she was happy. Then she told me about the first morning they woke up together, and that’s when she really lit up during our conversation.

She has a dog. Normally the dog gets her up early to go pee outside when she’s still in comatose denial of an outside world. On this particular morning, when the dog woke her up as usual, her new beau opened his eyes, looked at her and with nary a hesitation, issued the most magical three-word spell she could recall ever hearing from a man. She said these words slid from his masculine mouth smooth as a river stone and strong as steel (that’s my interpretation of what she said). She swooned. She relaxed. Under his sudden spell she felt herself completely protected and cherished by this man’s love.
“I got this.”
That’s what he said.
“I’m going to take on this uncomfortable mission-oriented task because that’s how I can best offer my masculine gift right now while honoring your delicious gift of feminine energy to my life. I will demonstrate my deep commitment to your care by ensuring you can stay warm under the covers and linger in this moment of blissful embodied reverie.”
He actually only said the first three words. That whole second paragraph is my rough translation as I believe my friend heard it.
But first he said it.
And then he actually did it.
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All hell is about to let loose as witch doctors from Kenya and Zimbabwe storm the country with sex charms.

A witch-doctor George Ubanda from Zimbabwe who is currently in Ikosi Ketu Lagos State says God is not at peace knowing that husbands and wives in Nigeria are cheating like no mans business.

He says many Nigerians cheat on their partners but his special charms can put an end to it. He said that his coming to Nigeria was by divine mandate. He claimed that God sent him to Nigeria especially to save celebrity marriages which break down every day due to infidelity.
When interviewed by newsmen, he said:

“People in this country have no respect for marriage. They always screw around. Where I come from, no one cheats. We don’t share our spouses. God is not happy with this nation so he sent me like Jonah was sent to Nineveh.”

According to George, his charms works in three ways.

“My charm keeps couples together. The first method is called ulunhoka (or runyoka). It causes a cheating person’s stomach to bulge and their skin to turn black as if they have been bitten by a snake.

“The second method is called lock – it’s popular in Zimbabwe. If you poke someone other than your spouse, you’ll become stuck to that person and only your husband or wife can free you,” he said.

“The third method makes sure your privates work only for your spouse. If you are a man then your manhood will remain limp and flaccid except when you are with your legally wife. If you are a woman, then your womanhood will become so dry and will never get wet enough for penetration except you are with your legally wedded husband. The charm according to him coats less than N10,000 each.

He said that many top society Nigerian women with randy husbands has patronized him in the past few months since he arrived lagos. He warned randy men who suddenly discovered that they can only have erections with their wives should confess to their wives and be healed.

He also revealed that he used the potent charm on his wife back home before coming to Nigeria though he insists that he will bring her over soon

“I want to protect her from men with lots of money. This charm locks her. I can’t cheat either,” he said.

William Chuni another witch-doctor, said: “Locking is used in many marriages but how it’s done is a secret between my clients and me.”


30-year old man arrested for defiling 1-year old baby (Photo)

Thirty-year-old Blessing Augustine, who hails from Kogi State but resides in Lugbe Zone 4, Abuja, the Federal Capital Territory, has been accused of defiling the one-year-old daughter of his neighbour. While pretending to play with her, he allegedly poked his finger at different times into the baby girl’s gen­ital and in the process broke her hymen.

The alleged act of Augustine came to light when the baby’s father reported him to the police and he was arrested. The baby was taken to Gwarimpa General Hospital and Amaco Hospital, a private health facility, where doctors in both places confirmed that she was defiled.

Recounting how the deeds of the suspect were uncovered, Nnamdi Chukwu, father of the baby told Sunday Sun:

“The ugly incident happened on June 13, 2015, when I heard my baby crying. I asked my wife to find out why the baby was crying. She said that Augustine told her that the little child saw a chicken and was frightened. But somehow the baby could not stop crying, which obvious­ly meant that she was in pain. So, I checked her thoroughly and saw little blood in her private part (genital).
“Prior to this time, there was a day my wife was prepar­ing for a birthday party and had gone into the bathroom to bathe. Augustine came quietly to our room and carried the baby without her knowledge. When she heard the baby cry­ing, she asked Augustine, who responded that he was playing with the baby, so we didn’t suspect anything.
But on that June 13, when the baby continued to cry in pain, after Augustine claimed that the baby saw a chicken, I took her to Gwarimpa Gen­eral Hospital, where a doctor examined her and confirmed that she was defiled.
I immediately reported the matter at Lugbe Police Station and Augustine was arrested. We have lived in the same compound with him for about one year. I want justice to be done.”

The suspect, who spoke with Sunday Sun in police custody, admitted that he had on several occasions taken the baby to his room to “play” with her, concurring with the account of the baby’s parent about the chicken story, but he denied the allegation made against him.
His words:

“I do play with the little baby.One day, she suddenly started crying and the mother asked me and I told her that the baby saw a chicken in the compound. I know always carry the baby from the room to the kitchen and play with her. I am the only person that always play with her. I do carry the baby sometimes without the knowledge of the mother to my room and play with her. “But I don’t know what they are saying that I raped the little baby.
I don’t know who fingered (defiled) the baby and raped her.”

Meanwhile, the Commis­sioner of Police in the FCT, Mr Wilson Inalegwu who con­firmed the story assured that the suspect would be charged to court after the completion of investigations into the matter.



Must Read!! How To Delay Ejaculat!0n To Last Longer In Bed

Learn to delay ejaculation and last longer in bed by trying these simple tips to delay and prolong ejaculation. This will enable you and your partner to enjoy a healthy s*x life.
Kegel exercises – Kegel exercises can help you prolong ejaculation. Kegels are those muscles that you use for controlling urination. So, flex these muscles about 30 times a day to delay ejaculation.

Squeeze technique – Prolong ejaculation and delay it by holding the tip of the head of the man-hood. Squeezing the tip of the man-hood can help control premature ejaculation.

Testes – The scrotum rises as a man reaches climax and is on the verge of ejaculation. So, delay ejaculation by pulling the scrotum away from the body.

Change focus – Rather than concentrating on ejaculation, concentrate on your partner’s pleasure.

Combination of thrusts – Delay ejaculation or male climax by combining shallow thrusts with deep thrusts. This technique helps prolong ejaculation and will make you last longer in bed.

Ma$$age the prostate gland – When you practice delaying ejaculation, the prostate gland turns sore. Hence it is important to ma$$age the gland to prevent any kind of pain.

Perineum pressure – Delay ejaculation by applying pressure to the perineum, which is the spot between the anus and scrotum. The prostate gland expands and contracts while reaching climax or ejaculation. So, by applying pressure on this spot, one can prolong ejaculation.

Pelvic muscles – Squeeze the pubococcygeous muscle to stop ejaculating. Contract these muscles, which are used for controlling urine; doing so regularly helps you delay ejaculation.

Blueberries – This berry is known to delay ejaculation, as it relaxes the nerves in the man-hood.

Woman-on-top – This s*x position reduces your chances of premature ejaculation, thereby helping you last longer in bed. Switch to the woman-on-top s*x position to delay ejaculation.

Start and stop – When you have the urge to release, stop, pull out and then thrust again. Also, the start and stop method helps a couple to last longer in bed and enjoy the full s*xual experience.

self service – self service can help you prolong s*x, so delay ejaculation by self servicing at least an hour before intercourse.

Control your climax – Without any lubrication self service to the point of climax and stop. Do it a couple of times and then release; over a period of time you can control ejaculation.

Before engaging in intercourse, engage in foreplay – ask your partner to gently ma$$age the man-hood along with lubrication. In time this method can help you prolong ejaculation.


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UN Report Puts Nigeria As 4th Most Populous Nation In 2050

The United Nations has projected that the current world population of over 7.2 billion is to increase by 1 billion over the next 12 years. Also, the global population will exceed 9.6 billion by 2050, according to the UN report. The growth will occur mainly in developing countries, with more than a half in Africa.
The Population Reference Bureau has come up with a report of the nations that will be the most populous by 2050. Here is a top ten count down, where Nigeria ranks among the top.
10. Ethiopia

Ethiopia is estimated to have about 98.1 million people and is likely to grow to 165 million by 2050.

Democratic Republic of Congo has 45% of its population to be under 15. It may reach 194 million by 2050.

Bangladesh, the 8th largest country in the world, is likely to grow to about 202 million.

With a declined fertility rate of 1.8 children per mother, Brazil is projected to reach 226 million by 2050.

The birth rate in Pakistan is very high when compared to that of India. Experts expect that the population will grow from 199 to 344 million in 2050.

By 2050 there will be an additional 110 million to the current population of Indonesia, raising it to 336 million.

Africa’s most populous black nation has a current population of over 170 million, and with the fertility rate of 5.5 children per woman, the estimate for 2050 is 398 million.

From all indications, the US will remain the third most populous country in the world. With lifetime expectancy rising and net migration figures high, the US is likely to have a population of 398 million.

An alteration from the top list for most populous nation is that of China coming in second place. Speculations have it that by 2030 the most populous country in the world will be surpassed, then its statistics would have grown to 1.42 billion and then to become 1.366 billion in 2050.

To move China off the top spot will be India, which is expected to add a whooping 300 million to its current population as to reach 1.66 billion, over 1.5 times the size of Western Europe. This is regardless of India’s high infant mortality rate, low urban population percentage, net migration not inclusive and a male gender skewed demography.

With the geometric progression at which the world’s population is increasing, there are fears that if proper planning is not done from this moment, then most of the countries within this list will have a lot of issues to handle. Fears are arising as to the best method to tackle matters of accommodation, feeding, education and job security.
According to Wu Hongbo, the UN under-secretary-general for economic and social affairs, understanding the demographic changes that are likely to unfold over the coming years, as well as the challenges and opportunities that they present for achieving sustainable development, is key to the design and implementation of the new development agenda.

Goat Gives Birth To Kid With Six Legs (Photos & Video)

The people of Muzuwerani Kwa Ndomo, in Kililifi county, Kenya, were shocked on Sunday, August 30, when they woke up in the morning to a goat that gave birth to a kid with six legs.

Citizen TV reports that the abnormal baby goat which has two fore legs and four hind legs is one of two twins born to the goat, although the other kid was normal.

According to the owner of the goat, Omar, this is the third delivery by the mother goat, and the others are normal.
“The goat has given birth twice before to normal twins. However, when it came to the third delivery, I was shocked to see the kid having six legs and the reproductive organ located beneath the legs. It uses the same organ to pass both urine and excrement,” Omar said.
“Some people have told me to kill it, but I see no need. I intend to see it through life. I am grateful to God it suckles well and I hope it shall be well,” he added.

This is the first incident of a goat having abnormal features to be witnessed in the area. See the video below:




This kind of mutation in animals is becoming quite normal nowadays as more and more weird creatures appear.

Nigerian Girl Becomes Sex Slave In Russia To Gain Money For Education

A Nigerian girl decided to go to Russia to earn money for her education but was tricked into prostitution by a local gang.
Blessing, 24, is another girl who spent two years in Russian city Voronezh cooking, babysitting and serving clients for money.
Last week, we saw another story of Nigerian girl who went to Russia to study Economics at a local university but also had to become a prostitute.

“‘Who told you that there is a good job for you in Russia? Prostitution is the only job you can do here,’ it was the first thing I was told by my future female pimp when I arrived in Russia,” Blessing said.

According to Blessing, she studied Fashion Design in Nigeria, however, she didn’t have money to continue her studies. When one of her friends suggested to go to Russia and earn some money, Blessing agreed.

“My Nigerian friend disappeared when we arrived in Russia. Later, I found out that she died. My pimp said I had to work as a prostitute to return $45,000 that they allegedly spent on my air tickets and other stuff.
“When I said “No”, they started to beat me up. Two years have passed but I still have visible scars.
“If I only knew earlier that there were people who can help me, I would have returned in Nigeria long ago. I didn’t know there was a way out. My parents and brothers know what happened to me. They are waiting for my return,” Blessing said.

When girls refuse to serve clients, the pimp beats them up till they obey the orders. If they still refuse to obey, the pimp kicks them out without passports and money to live. As girls are far away from their homes and families without any support, they usually give up all attempts to run away.

“I was told that if I refused to work as other girls, they would have killed me. But I replied that only God can kill me,” Blessing concluded.

According to a Russian photographer, Tatiana Egorova, who met Blessing and other rescued girls several days before her departure to home, Blessing is already at home with her family. Though the photographer doesn’t know how the 24-year-old girl is coping with her life now.

In Nigeria, the main reasons of human trafficking – mostly selling women and children for commercial sexual exploitation – are poverty, social inequality and unemployment. Almost all international trade in Nigeria is concentrated in Benin City, the capital of Edo state. Lots of Nigerian families send their daughters in Europe to escape poverty.

Finally! Sango Koso Appears (Photos)

The Sango Koso is the highest and the head of all the Sangos in the world. He is equivalent to a king. In Oyo Empire, it believes that if there is no Sango, there is no Alaafin, if there is no Alaafin there is no Oyo.

Each successive Alaafin can see other Sangos except Sango Koso. It is said that the Alaafin cannot bow for anyone king including Sango Koso and Sango Koso cannot bow for Alaafin. On the arrival of this Sango, the Alaafin by tradition is expected to retire to his chamber as the two cannot reign at the same time.
Clavmedia.com brings to you photos of the Sango Koso. See photos below.

Boko Haram Strikes Again In Borno Using Horses

About 68 people have been killed with several others injured as Boko Haram insurgents invaded Baanu village in Nganzai local government area of Borno state on Friday, August 28. 

Vanguard reports a resident of the area, Yuram Musa, who fled to Maiduguri to avoid the attack, said the insurgents came on horses at about 8:30 shooting heavily and killing everyone in view.
He said: “We had to flee into the bush and hide and after they left, we return back to pick some of our belongings. I counted 68 corpses, some were slaughtered, while others were with gunshot wounds. The number of those killed is worrisome as corpses littered the streets of the village.
“Government should do something, otherwise, these Boko Haram members will continue to kill innocent citizens. Every surrounded villages, which is five kilometres away from Gajiram, the headquarters of Nganzai, had been taken over by the insurgents, as most of them are residing around the area.’’
Confirming the attack, the Borno state governor, Kashim Shettima, while addressing the parents of the abducted Chibok girls over the weekend, said the insurgents killed 56 people at the Nganzai village.
“The Boko Haram crisis is a calamity that befalls us as the insurgents do not discriminate whether somebody is Christian or a Muslim nor tribal affiliations.
“Just yesterday, they killed 56 people at Baanu village of Nganzai local government. As I am speaking to you, their corpses are still littered on the streets of the village,” the governor said.
Just recently, the Department of State Services (DSS) revealed that many members of the terrorist group, Boko Haram are now resident in Lagos and other states because of the intense pressure being put on them in the northeast of the country by the Nigerian military.

Highly endowed controversial Nollywood actress, Cossy Orjiakor, has made it known that she is looking for a husband.

Cossy

 

 

The actress, who does not see any big deal in acting nude according to her, has described herself as “highly spiritual”. In a new interview with Ovwe Medeme, Cossy said a lot of things that might interest you. She talked about her current projects, marriage and some of the controversies surrounding her career.

Read excerpts below:


Career-wise, how has it been with you?
Career-wise, I have been doing very good.  You know it is not a competition so I just go at my own pace.

 A lot of things have been said or written about you, but who would you like people to know you as?
I am a very deep person; I am a very spiritual person. I love people who love me and I don’t really care about what they say about me.

Does it affect you in any way?
It doesn’t affect me in any way when people I don’t care about talk about me. I try to make my anger so expensive that people can’t afford it, except people I love.

There are those who say that you intentionally generate controversy so that you will always be in the news. How would you respond to that?
It is not about intentionally generating controversy. When I’m happy, when I want to have fun, the way I have fun might be controversial for some because like right now, I came out to work and I’m looking all good but if I’m going to a party, you don’t expect me to be formal. You should also understand that what other people wear, when I wear it, it comes out different. There are different things that make me happy some people do drug but me I just like playing with my physique and playing with my attires. So that is the kick I get.

Your sexuality is always in the public eye. Are you comfortable with that?
I am very comfortable with myself. I love myself to bits. I love everything about me. I have no regrets.

People tend to know you more with your natural endowments…
(cuts in) When you talk about people, the truth is that, I don’t really care. I am having fun. Life is short. So I just do my thing. If you keep listening to people, you will just change your destiny. You won’t be able to achieve what you want. Then when you get old, you will be very annoying and irritable. Live your life. Don’t bother about all those people, especially when there is no particular name attached to these people.

How do you catch fun?
I love listening to music. I love dressing up. I love going out. Generally, I love doing things that make me happy.

Where does your music career stand as of today?
Like I always say when people ask me this question, I’m not in a competition with anybody. I’m doing good all by myself. You know, I have a good friend. He is a big name in this industry. Any money he gets, he uses it to shoot expensive videos and yet, this guy doesn’t even have a car.
Why would somebody stress themselves just because they want to be on TV all the time? It’s expensive to promote music so if you do one a year, it is not a bad thing. It depends on how you cut out your life but I always suggest. If you are an up and coming, always make sure you have other things you do. Don’t rely on just one source of income. That is why we have five fingers in each hand. Try to get like five things that will keep you very busy and will make money for you.

Are you working on an album?
My dear, again, let me repeat it. I am not in a competition with anybody. I have a studio in my place. I bought all the equipment needed for movie production. Anything that makes me happy, I just get it.

How would you describe your sense of style?
My sense of style all depends on what and how I feel. So if I feel like being sexy, I know what to do. If I am going for an interview, I know how to dress.

How do you relate with your fans?
I love my fans. I can do anything for them.

Some of them are wondering when you will be getting married…
I’m looking for husband o! Will you marry me? (laughs)

If I agree to marry you, what are some of the qualities you will use to rate me?
(laughs) That is a very private question…
In May, Cossy had balanced a glass of wine between her massive boobs at the birthday bash of another Nollywood actress, Uche Ogbodo. In a recent interview, the actress said she still gets offers for movie roles but she’s very choosy, saying, “I don’t just accept roles like that.”

Women Take Off Their Clothes To Fight Photoshop Usage

“Real women are all different – and that’s totally OK.” This is the message a group of feminists were trying to convey in their new video against Photoshop usage.

Scroll down to see the photos and watch the video!
In a video titled Feminists vs. Photoshop women of all races, sizes and ages band together to speak out against using the photo-editing software to change the way women look. All of them, different but beautiful,  strip down to their underwear, while listing all the things the women can be:

“Real women can have wrinkles!” “Real women can have curves!” “Real women can have muscles!” “Real women can be skinny, big-breasted, and flat-chested. Real women can be whatever the f*** they are!” Each of the passionate speeches end with the woman giving the camera the middle finger and saying: “Photoshop this.”

Watch video:

FCKH8 describe themselves as “a for-profit T-shirt company with an activist heart and a passionate social change mission: arming thousands of people with pro-LGBT equality, anti-racism and anti-sexism T-shirts that act as ‘mini-billboards’ for change.”
 
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Hell was let loose yesterday, Sunday, August 30, at the United Methodist Church, in the Oshodi area of Lagos.

The Punch reports that members of the church rejected their pastor and chased him away for allegedly impregnating his housemaid who is also a member of his church. According to report, the pastor, Barkuma Andrew, was stopped from leading the church seven months ago when the housemaid, Grace, had complications after aborting the pregnancy. The pastor lives with his wife, children, wife’s cousin, Favour, and Grace in a three-bedroom flat inside the church premises.

It was reported that the members had pleaded with the Central Conference of the church in Taraba State to help look into the alleged incident. However, when the district did not do anything about it, the congregation sought the service of another pastor three weeks ago. The congregation got to church at about 10am yesterday for Sunday service only to see that Andrew and some “unknown” people had commenced the service.


This sprouted the anger of the members of the church as they chased pastor Andrew and his folks out of the church. Men from the Makinde police division, including the DPO, were said to have intervened after the incident was reported at the station. A member of the church and a former secretary to Andrew, Moses Sherima, said that the pastor sent his wife to her village when he impregnated Grace. He said:

“My room is opposite pastor’s apartment and I was his secretary. When he started dating that girl (Grace), I called his wife’s cousin, Favour, on the matter. She said Grace used to tell her whenever the pastor had sex with her. At a point, I had to move upstairs when I could no longer bear it. The day that abortion happened, I was sleeping inside my room when I heard Grace screaming. I rushed there and saw blood coming out from her private parts. When the wife came back from one of her numerous journeys, he told her to send Favour away.”

Another church member, John Komboroh, said the church was embarrassed by Andrew’s conduct, adding that they were tired of his leadership. He said:

“The petition of adultery against the pastor had been sent to the bishop at the Central Conference. He came here, but did not do anything about it. That was why we wrote to the main body, the Southern Conference to give us another pastor. His (Andrew’s) action is an embarrassment to us. We don’t want him again.”

The new pastor of the church, Reverend James Sunday, said:

“We were about to start our service this morning when we met the old pastor and some unknown people already holding the service. I calmed down my people to avoid chaos.”

Another resident and a female member, who identified herself only as Blessing, said the pastor had once made sexual advances to her.

“My husband is not always at home. The pastor would call me in the night and asked if I had slept. One day he entered my room and gave me a soft slap on my back. I had only the wrapper on me. I was surprised and told my neighbours.”


When contacted on the telephone around 1pm on Sunday, Andrew said he was in a meeting and promised to get back to The Punch on the incident. He told The Punch Metro that he was still at the meeting when he was called back around 5pm.

Meanwhile, a South African pastor, Pastor Peniel, is popularly known for a number of strange acts. He had fed his congregation live snake. He had turned human hair into food for the consumption of the church members.

He was arrested and charged with animal cruelty after feeding his congregants snake but he later released on bail and he said the South African police do not know who they are fighting.

Irate members of the EFF brigade had reportedly set the church ablaze about two weeks ago, vowing to feed Mnguni snakes and rodents, exactly as he had done to members of his ETDM church.

Car Thieves Almost Beaten To Death In Ph (GRAPHIC PHOTOS)

Every day for the thief, one day for the owner, These guys were caught trying to steal a Venza outside FCMB Rumumasi in Portharcourt.
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Photos of stack nak3d model blends perfectly into nature in new photos

Never underestimate the power of photography, These amazing images by photographer Tschiponnique Skupin show naked models perfectly camouflaged in the backgrounds.They were taken in Lower Saxony, Germany last month for a project called 'Nature Art'. You can barely see them, unless you look closely.
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Mother who lost her child because of hunger, buries her alone (GRAPHIC PHOTO)

This sad incident happened somewhere on the bothers of Sokoto and Niger, the poor woman was pictured burying her dead child alone. According to what I read,the baby died as a result of hunger.

Guy couldn't get his eyes off Ebube Nwagbo's back side at a wedding (Photos)

Some guys can be so lost when looking at a lady, so Nollywood actress Ebube Nwagbo was a wedding guest at a friends wedding in Warri where she rocked this wonderful jump suit by Tiffany Amber. She looked so beautiful that all eyes were on her. Pretty lady with a high taste of fashion and style.
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EXPOSED!!! John Mikel Obi Secretly Fathers Two Children with Different Women

Chelsea footballer John Obi Mikel has secretly fathered two children with different women, it has emerged today.
The 28-year-old midfielder is dad to a four-year-old son and a one-year-old daughter after short relationships with the women.
The Nigerian international player, whose side lost 2-1 at home to Crystal Palace yesterday, makes sure he provides for his two children.
He is understood to have bought a £500,000 house in 2013 in the Home Counties for his son and mum and is keen to play a part in the boy's life.
A source told The Sun:
"John also agreed to give her tens of thousands a year in upkeep and, I think, agreed to give her a new car every three to five years."
Mikel also financially supports his daughter, who was born after the couple met at a London nightclub in 2013. A friend of the daughter's mum added:
"John has provided for her and the girl. She seems to have come into money since having the baby and is keeping a low profile."
Mikel is now dating Russian businesswoman Olga Diyachenko and has posted pics of the pair together on social media.
In an interview in Nigeria last year. he revealed:
"I've been dating seriously for two years now. I'm in love. I've found love."
A spokesman for the footballer told The Sun:
"This is an entirely private matter. John provides for and cares for his children and will continue to do so. He asks that their privacy is respected."

Why Marriages Fail - Bishop Oyedepo

Bishop David Oyedepo, founder and general overseer of the Living Faith Church, a.k.a Winners Chapel, has blamed the high rate of divorce cases in the world to the belief in women liberation.

Bishop Oyedepo

According to The Heat Nigeria, Oyedepo during a service at his church in Ota, Ogun State on Sunday, August 23, said the increasing approval of equality between women and men have spilled into their marital lives.

He noted that such women now equate themselves with their husbands against the biblical doctrine that advises women to be submissive to their husbands and that men should love their wives.

Bishop Oyedepo said cases of divorce are more in the western world because people in such places have thrown away the dictates of God and have instead started consuming self-made laws that confer on them near-absolute freedom.
He revealed that this was partly the reason behind the laws approving homosexuality in such countries.
The founder of Winners Chapel lamented what the world was now turning into saying that nowadays, churches are being taken to court for refusing to marry men.
Speaking to the congregation, he said that women must be submissive to their husbands and that if they follow such with prayers, even if such men are wayward, God would return them to the family.

He also warned the men not to be carried away by the things of the world as they must learn to love their wives as the Bible had warned.
“When you work in the light of scriptures, you create an enviable future,” he said.
Oyedepo, who quoted various verses in the Bible to back his teaching, urged people to learn and work towards achieving success rather than blaming others for their failure.

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6 Things That Prevent You From Being Truly Happy

Everyone wants to be happy and be in a joyous mood but sometimes, a few things keep us from finding this happiness. These might be things we do consciously or unconsciously, but whatever the case may be, they affect our overall mood and joy. We will take a look at some of the culprits below.

Resentment: Sometimes, we harbour resentment or dislike towards other people and we do not realise that this would have a negative impact on our moods. When you harbour negative feelings, you end up poisoning your soul and this would keep you from experiencing true happiness.

Holding Grudges: It takes a lot of energy to hold a grudge as you keep focusing on your anger and ways to make a person pay for whatever it was they did to you. To avoid this bad habit, make sure you let people know when they have done something to offend you. If the person apologises, forgive and move on; if they don’t, still let go anyway. Holding a grudge or keeping malice will do no one any good.

 

Not Living In The Moment: We are all so focused on our dreams, or plans and our future that we sometimes forget to enjoy the moment. The only thing that is sure, when it comes to time, is right now. The future is unknown, but if you find ways to enjoy the “here and now”, then you will find yourself less stressed and in a better mood.

 

Being Unappreciative: While we are enjoying the here and now, we should also not forget to be grateful for what we have. We all want better cars, jobs, more money, a bigger house, better looks, etc, but we sometimes forget to simply be grateful for what we already have. So, take a look around you, count your blessings and be grateful for the things you have, no matter how small they seem to you.

 

Not Being Helpful: Knowing you have held out a helping hand for someone who really needs it is truly a beautiful feeling. So, try to extend whatever you can give for people that need it. It does not have to be financially. Offering an encouraging word to someone who feels down, smiling at a stranger, listening to someone who desperately needs someone to talk to or simply being there for the people around you are ways you can help. You will find yourself feeling lighter than air, knowing that you gave someone a reason to smile and believe.

 

No Hobbies: Having or doing something special that is just for you is a great way to keep your mood up. A lot of people do not realise the importance of having a hobby and they assume it is a waste of time, but this is a huge misconception. Having something that makes you feel good, regardless of the normal everyday hectic life, is a great way to unwind and remind yourself that life is short.

These are just a few of the things that could leave you feeling unhappy with tips on how to bring the required changes into your life. Remember, you only live once and it is important that you make the best out of whatever you have been given.
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38 virgins killed in bus crash on their way to 'topless' dance festival for King of Swaziland (Photos)

Dozens of girls and young women were killed as they travelled to the traditional festival where the King of Swaziland is know to pick a new bride from thousands of topless, dancing virgins.
At least 38 died when the open-topped truck collided with another vehicle, before being hit by a second truck as it travelled along a motorway between the Swazi cities of Mbabane and Manzini on Friday afternoon.
The girls were all taking part in the Swazi Reed Dance Festival, an annual event which sees tens of thousands of unmarried girls - or 'maidens' - perform for King Mswati III, Africa's last absolute monarch.
The Sherborne-educated king is known to pick his wives from the girls who perform for him at the traditional dance, a tribute to the queen mother.
Last year, he plucked a 19-year-old virgin from the dancing maidens, who became his 14th wife.
Swaziland's King Mswati III arrives for the annual Reed Dance at Ludzidzini in 2010
But the authorities in Swaziland are now being accused of trying to cover up the accident on Friday, with rights group The Swaziland Solidarity Network (SSN) claiming police attempted to discourage media reporting on the deaths.
Photographers were also prevented from taking pictures at the scene, said a Swazi journalist, who insisted on anonymity for security reasons.
However, the Times of Swaziland did report on the tragedy, describing scenes of chaos as parents began to arrive at the Raleigh Fitkin Memorial Hospital, in Manzini.
It said they were held outside the emergency room, where the bodies and about 20 survivors were being treated.
Survivor Siphelele Sigudla, 18, told the paper:
'We were about 50 on board the first truck that smashed into the Toyota van.'
The SSN has now called on the royal family to reconsider going ahead with the festival, which sees about 40,000 participating in the eight-day ceremony.
The girls and young women sing and dance, often bare-breasted, as they bring reeds to reinforce the windbreak around the royal residence, a government website said.
'We hope that the families of the deceased girls will hold the royal family accountable for the deaths of their children,' the group said in a statement, as it alleged a similar incident had been covered up previously.
'The least that the royal family can do at this moment is to cancel this year's reed dance.'
But the King has already sent his condolences.
'We all have heard about the dark cloud that has befallen the 'imbali,'' he said, using the Swati language word for flower, used to refer to the groups of women dancers.
Speaking at the opening of an international trade fair in Swaziland's economic center Manzini, he promised that the affected families would be compensated. He added that an investigation into the accident was underway.